As the Christmas lights start to twinkle across our homes and towns, many of us feel a familiar mix of excitement, nostalgia… and maybe just a sprinkle of stress. The holiday season has a way of stirring everything up at once—joy, connection, pressure, memories, and the occasional urge to hide in the biscuit cupboard until January.
At Breda Morrissey CBT & Counselling, this time of year brings a gentle reminder: it’s okay if Christmas doesn’t feel perfect, polished, or peaceful 100% of the time. You’re human, and this season can be a lot.
The Emotional Cocktail of Christmas
Christmas often comes with:
- The pressure to be cheerful and sociable
- Family dynamics that would test even the most patient elf
- Shopping lists that magically grow longer every day
- Memories—both comforting and challenging
- And the expectation to “hold it all together”
If this resonates, you’re not alone. Many people find December emotionally intense, even while genuinely enjoying the season.
A Little CBT Wisdom for the Holidays
Cognitive Behavioural Therapy encourages us to gently notice the thoughts that shape our feelings. This month, you might try:
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Challenging the “shoulds.”
“I should be doing more.”
“I should feel happier.”
“I should have everything sorted by now.”
These thoughts pile unnecessary pressure on an already full season.
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Creating small, manageable moments of calm.
A quiet cup of tea.
A walk in the crisp air.
Five slow breaths before facing the next festive task.
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Being kind to yourself.
Your worth is not measured by how many presents you buy, how glowing your tree is, or how perfectly your plans turn out.
Sometimes “good enough” is more than enough.
Connection Over Perfection
The heart of Christmas isn’t about flawless routines or magazine-worthy celebrations—it’s about connection. With others, yes, but also with yourself. Allow space for rest, humour, and small joys. Laugh at the burnt mince pies. Let the wrapping be crooked. Embrace whatever your version of the season looks like this year.
If You Need Support, You’re Welcome Here
Whether Christmas lifts your spirits or brings emotional challenges to the surface, support is always available. At Breda Morrissey CBT & Counselling, you’ll find a warm, understanding, and down-to-earth space to explore whatever you’re carrying—at Christmas and all year round.
Wishing you a season filled with comfort, kindness, and moments of genuine peace.
Warmest Christmas wishes,
Breda Morrissey CBT & Counselling
@BredamorrisseyCBT email: bredamorrisseycounsellor@gmail.com











